Burning a woman’s
face with acid lurches her future into flames. The
physical can be doused, but her core will eternally
burn with the sting of having been brutally violated.
How can one be considered beautiful with deep, blackened
burn lines and a glass eye? How can one earn a livelihood
when turned away at the door? And how can one be loved
when shunned by family members? This is the plight
of the acid survivors.
The acid survivors
are mostly women who have been burnt as a result of
land disputes, refusal of sex, refusal of marriage,
and dowry issues. Survivors also include men and children.
The attacks occur in Bangladesh, Cambodia, India,
and Pakistan, among other countries.
This past fall, two Pakistani-American women, Sara
Qadir and Samira Khan held a third annual event in
Washington, DC to raise money for the Acid Survivors.
In particular, the funds would enhance the Acid Survivors
Foundation (ASF) ability to create livelihood opportunities
for the women by involving them in crafts, such sewing
and the creation of special bandages for surgery.
In 2006, Samira spent a year working with the Acid
Survivors Foundation (ASF) in Dhaka Bangladesh. She
witnessed the internal glows of victims like Dolly
and Baby who were involved in these crafts and took
pride in their independence and work. One survivor
fell in love and got married as well. Samira realized
that these survivors don’t cease be vibrant
due to the burns; Although they sting eternally, they
are able to build the strength to rise above and leave
the past to ash. However, this process must be supported
by networks/organizations that provide health, social,
and legal counsel, to these women. These brighter
avenues are made possible by donors/funds.
Realizing the critical importance of this mission,
Sara Qadir joined Samira in planning the second and
third annual events and with her drive, the two women
plan to start a chapter of the organization in the
US to continue the link of support and understanding
between East and West; The idea would be to generate
models and campaigns in the West as well as the East
to raise awareness on and mitigate the impacts of
acid violence.
This past fall, the event attracted many young Pakistanis
and other South Asians in the area who were brought
to tears by the tragic nature of the violence. Each
year, thousands of dollars are raised and the Sara
and Samira continue to garner increasing support in
many ways – financially, through free services
provided to the event, emotionally, and more.
The physical damage to these women may be irreversible,
but they can be assisted and loved by us. About ten
years ago, Save the Children brought a ten year-old
girl, Nurjahan Mondul, from Dhaka to the US for treatment.
She lived in Florida with a host mother for years
on and off. She appeared on the Oprah Winfrey Show,
continued to excel as a student, and has many friends.
However, upon gaining admission to college, she was
sent back to Dhaka due to visa issues. Emotionally
and effectively, this is her new home. Samira plans
to take on the issue of this girl with the launch
of the new chapter. She wants to bring her back home
and help her fulfill her dreams of an American college
education.
All in all, support is what allows these vulnerable
victims to become Survivors. Again, in Dhaka, Bangladesh,
ASF is an organization providing legal counsel, medical
attention, jobs, and friendships to these women. Without
the support of immediate family, many victims are
not able to come from the rural areas to Dhaka to
seek help. ASF uses BRAC, an NGO with field offices
all over the country, to learn about attacks immediately
and provide attention.
In Pakistan, Masarrat Misbah, the owner of Depilex
(one of the most renowned beauty salons in Lahore)
was approached by a victim and decided to take action.
She contacted Smile Again, an Italian nonprofit that
has provided medical services to burn victims in other
countries. She got some treatment and provided them
training/jobs in her salon.
Sara and Samira would like to reach out to the Pakistani
community in DC to help band with them to assist these
survivors in getting support and bringing the perpetrators
to justice. Our love can engender new life in the
acid victims.
-- Samira Khan, Co-organizer of Third Annual Acid
Survivors Event, DC
Images courtesy Tarek Ahmed.